An equipping workshop designed to
build resilience and deeper connection that can FORTIFY your marriage!
Seeking to revitalize their relationship and deepen their connection.
Looking to reset their relationship dynamics and reignite intimacy.
Aiming to enhance communication and understanding within their relationship.
Desiring to rediscover passion and strengthen their bond.
Interested in exploring new approaches to relationship building and fostering deeper emotional connections.
Committed to investing in their relationship and creating a more fulfilling partnership.
Ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and mutual growth to cultivate a stronger, more resilient relationship.
CJ and Lisa have been an absolute blessing in our lives, guiding us through the ups and downs of our marriage with unwavering support and love. Through their expertise and dedication, they have championed our relationship, helping us navigate challenges and grow closer together. They have taught us the power of intentionality and effective communication, equipping us with valuable tools to strengthen our bond. With their guidance, we have learned to openly discuss our differences, entrusting our relationship to God. We wholeheartedly recommend CJ and Lisa to anyone seeking to transform their marriage into something truly remarkable.

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Embracing the Presence of Jesus in Your Marriage by cultivating a connection centered on love and faith, allowing Jesus to guide your journey together.

Mastering your mindset for a victorious marriage journey: Transform your perspective to cultivate a mindset of abundance, joy and growth in your marriage

Mastering the Art of Heartfelt and Effective Communication Develop the ability to communicate from the heart, fostering understanding and intimacy.

Understanding and Fulfilling His and Her
Deepest Needs. Delve into each other's
needs, nurturing a harmonious relationship
through mutual understanding.

Choosing each other every day,
forever embrace
the daily choice to love and prioritize
your partner, creating a resilient bond.
Radiant Reflection.

CJ Ellis
CJ is a seasoned mentor, life coach, and passionate advocate for strong and fulfilling marriages. With over 30 years of experience as a church leader and senior pastor, CJ has touched the lives of countless couples, guiding them on their journey to building Christ-centered relationships.
Together with his wife Lisa, CJ is a living testament to the power of love, commitment, and faith in marriage. His inspirational podcasts, transformative coaching programs, and wisdom-filled teachings have helped many couples overcome challenges, deepen their connection, and experience lasting joy in their relationships.
With unwavering dedication and a heart for empowering others, CJ continues to make a profound impact on couples seeking to take their marriages to new heights.
CJ Ellis

CJ is a seasoned mentor, life coach, and passionate advocate for strong and fulfilling marriages. With over 30 years of experience as a church leader and senior pastor, CJ has touched the lives of countless couples, guiding them on their journey to building Christ-centered relationships.
Together with his wife Lisa, CJ is a living testament to the power of love, commitment, and faith in marriage. His inspirational podcasts, transformative coaching programs, and wisdom-filled teachings have helped many couples overcome challenges, deepen their connection, and experience lasting joy in their relationships.
With unwavering dedication and a heart for empowering others, CJ continues to make a profound impact on couples seeking to take their marriages to new heights.
Lisa is a dynamic and inspirational individual who is passionate about empowering couples to build thriving and lasting marriages. With over 33 years of marriage to her beloved husband CJ, and the joy of raising six incredible adult children, Lisa has gained valuable insights Into the complexities and joys of family life. She brings a wealth of experience and wisdom to her role as a mentor, advisor, and friend to couples seeking to strengthen their bonds. As a skilled horse trainer, Lisa extends her passion for teaching beyond relationships, using her expertise to share the art of riding with others. Her strong faith and deep spiritual connection guide her work as a speaker, where she shares her experiences and insights to motivate and uplift audiences.
With warmth and compassion, Lisa is committed to creating transformative experiences and fostering deeper connections in marriages, making her an invaluable asset to the "Bulletproof Marriage Mentoring Experience."


Lisa is a dynamic and inspirational individual who is passionate about empowering couples to build thriving and lasting marriages. With over 33 years of marriage to her beloved husband CJ, and the joy of raising six incredible adult children, Lisa has gained valuable insights Into the complexities and joys of family life. She brings a wealth of experience and wisdom to her role as a mentor, advisor, and friend to couples seeking to strengthen their bonds. As a skilled horse trainer, Lisa extends her passion for teaching beyond relationships, using her expertise to share the art of riding with others. Her strong faith and deep spiritual connection guide her work as a speaker, where she shares her experiences and insights to motivate and uplift audiences.
With warmth and compassion, Lisa is committed to creating transformative experiences and fostering deeper connections in marriages, making her an invaluable asset to the "Bulletproof Marriage Mentoring Experience."
Communication often leads to misunderstanding and conflict.
Intimacy and passion have diminished over time.
Feeling disconnected and distant from each other.
Trust issues and lingering doubts about each other's commitment.
Feeling stuck in repetitive, unproductive relationship patterns.
Frequent arguments and unresolved issues causing tension.
Communication is more effective, fostering understanding.
Intimacy and passion are reignited, leading to a fulfilling connection.
Feeling deep, emotional connection and a renewed sense of closeness.
Healthy balance between personal growth and a thriving partnership.
Strengthened trust, renewed sense of security and confidence.
Positive habits that promote growth and fulfillment in marriage.
Communication often leads to misunderstanding and conflict.
Intimacy and passion have diminished over time
Feeling disconnected and distant from each other
Trust issues and lingering doubts about each other's commitment
Feeling stuck in repetitive, unproductive relationship patterns
Frequent arguments and unresolved issues causing tension.
Communication is more effective, fostering understanding.
Intimacy and passion are reignited, leading to a fulfilling connection.
Feeling deep, emotional connection and a renewed sense of closeness.
Healthy balance between personal growth and a thriving partnership.
Strengthened trust, renewed sense of security and confidence.
Positive habits that promote growth and fulfillment in marriage.

"CJ's wisdom and advice have been a game changer in my marriage. His insight on focusing on the positives in my wife rather than her faults has had a profound impact on me. His understanding and compassion make me feel valued, and I truly appreciate his guidance."


"CJ has been my rock during challenging times in my marriage. His podcasts provide weekly inspiration for loving my family better. He's reignited my passion for making my wife a priority, offering valuable insights on intentional love. When CJ shares how he listens to the Holy Spirit for guidance, it motivates me to do the same."


"I've heard CJ preach on marriage for years, and his lasting 30+ year marriage to Lisa is a powerful testament. He guided me through tough times in my own marriage with biblical counseling and unwavering support. Their impact on my life is immeasurable; it often felt like God's hands guiding me through turmoil. CJ and Lisa have been an immense blessing."


"CJ has been a refreshing reminder of how important it is to keep the love flowing in a marriage relationship no matter how long or how well it’s going. And it’s always been a high point for me of how he has been able to bring his wife and children along with him in his ministry. How he got them involved at an early age. As a pastor that is something we regularly lack."


"I am 74 years old and married to the same lovely lady for 44 years. We have five sons, and have been empty-nesters for the last 16 years... CJ reminds me of things I have let slide. His stories help me remember some of my own stories and give me joy, and they amaze me at the goodness of God toward those who seek Him fully."


“I have known CJ from college since I was 22, and I am now 58. He always sought God’s Kingdom first, and he even shared the gospel with me back in the day. His weekly podcasts encourage me and make me feel blessed. Everything he says inspires me to be more intentional in my marriage! CJ, YOU HAVE THIS DOWN TO A SCIENCE!!”


"CJ's wisdom and advice have been a game changer in my marriage. His insight on focusing on the positives in my wife rather than her faults has had a profound impact on me. His understanding and compassion make me feel valued, and I truly appreciate his guidance."


"CJ has been my rock during challenging times in my marriage. His podcasts provide weekly inspiration for loving my family better. He's reignited my passion for making my wife a priority, offering valuable insights on intentional love. When CJ shares how he listens to the Holy Spirit for guidance, it motivates me to do the same."


"I've heard CJ preach on marriage for years, and his lasting 30+ year marriage to Lisa is a powerful testament. He guided me through tough times in my own marriage with biblical counseling and unwavering support. Their impact on my life is immeasurable; it often felt like God's hands guiding me through turmoil. CJ and Lisa have been an immense blessing."


"CJ has been a refreshing reminder of how important it is to keep the love flowing in a marriage relationship no matter how long or how well it’s going. And it’s always been a high point for me of how he has been able to bring his wife and children along with him in his ministry. How he got them involved at an early age. As a pastor that is something we regularly lack."


"I am 73 years old and married to the same lovely lady for 43 years. We have five sons, and have been empty-nesters for the last 15 years, and TEWM is still important and meaningful for me. CJ reminds me of things I have let slide. His stories help me remember some of my own stories and give me joy, and they amaze me at the goodness of God toward those who seek Him fully."


“I have known CJ from college since I was 22, and I am now 58. He always sought God’s Kingdom first, and he even shared the gospel with me back in the day. His weekly podcasts encourage me and make me feel blessed. Everything he says inspires me to be more intentional in my marriage! CJ, YOU HAVE THIS DOWN TO A SCIENCE!!”

6 hour masterclass
Building a bulletproof marriage e-course
More sex, better respect in 5-steps (e-course for men)
30-days free access to the Bulletproof Marriage Membership
A thriving network of likeminded people.
Action step worksheets
Relationship reboot audio course
Plus much more...
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"Their impact on my life is immeasurable!"
" it often felt like God's hands guiding me through turmoil. CJ and Lisa have been an immense blessing."
6 hour equipping masterclass
Reboot your relationship
Supernaturally charge your marriage
Enjoy a fun, empowering, and encouraging environment
Walk away with effective tools you can implement right away
Plus much more...
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"Their impact on my life is immeasurable"!!
"it often felt like God's hands guiding me through turmoil. CJ and Lisa have been an immense blessing."
"We are committed to your relationship's transformation and satisfaction with our workshop. We are dedicated to ensuring you have a valuable and impactful experience. If you encounter any issues or feel that the masterclass did not equip you with tools to enhance your marriage, please reach out to us. We are here to support you and will work with you to address any concerns and help you get the most out of this journey towards a deeper, more fulfilling connection with your partner. If we're not able to do that to your satisfaction, we will refund you your money."


Our 6 hour masterclass to reboot spiritual & emotional alignment;
build resilience and deeper connection that can fortify your marriage FOREVER!
Change the way you think about your spouse